Jul 28 2008
doctor schmoctor
Last Thursday Chris got off work early and so he came home and went to work around here (as he usually does). He's been building a new shed, which is quite impressive. I've been taking pictures, but as you regulars know, alas, cannot load them here for awhile. Just know that it's nice, concrete foundation, solid wood frame, all steel sides and roof, and one huge window... he went all out. We're using our tax refund money for this so that he can get his stuff out of our garage turned workshop, so that he can finish out the garage into two rooms and an extra bathroom... eventually.
Anyways, he was out there working, did something, slipped and his forearm came down on a corner piece of metal. He then had a nice-sized hole/puncture wound in his arm, which was just gushing pouring blood (thank You Lord that he didn't hit an artery!). I was inside with the kids, had just gotten baby S down for a nap literally minutes before (good timing) when he came rushing inside, holding his arm, with blood dripping down it. He immediately started snapping orders, "Beth, I need you... NOW! Get me some dental floss... I need a needle... "
Oh, no, I thought... *gulp* I knew where this was going. You see, about six years ago, he'd busted his knee open loading a moving truck and ended up sitting in the tub, sewing it up himself! I immediately started freaking out counseling him to let me take him downtown to the Urgent Care walk-in clinic. Why did I even fight him on it? I dunno, you'd think that I know this stubborn man well enough by now to know better. By now he had ice and a rag on his wound, and I was gathering supplies for the inevitable, even as I pleaded with him to let me take him... the gash was in his right arm, and therefore he was asking me to do the sewing this time.
Have you ever tried to sew up skin, with a regular sewing needle? Me neither, but I've seen it done... skin is tough, and stretches, and resists, it's not like cotton cloth atall.*sighs* As usual, he won. I relented right before he would have started getting really mad, when I saw that he absolutely wasn't going anywhere and would have sat there doing it by himself if I didn't help him. Yes, he would have. And so I began sterilizing our assemblage of supplies as he leaned over the kitchen sink, pouring iodine into his cut. I was thinking out loud...
Wouldn't it be good to get a tetanus shot?
He shot back, The metal is clean, brand new, don't need one.
Well, what about an antibiotic, in case of infection?
There won't be any infection if we keep it clean...
I know this... so, why am I worrying so? I thought, Must be the blood... Finally, I conceded, completely this time, sat down on the stool in front of him, and began to try and sew up my man's arm.
Well... I was shaking a bit, not out of nervousness, but because the needle just would not go through, which apparently made Chris pretty nervous though. He then had me hand the needle (threaded with waxed dental floss- just in case you were wondering- and held by pliers, to push and pull it with) over to him and he proceeded to sew up his right arm, left-handed, which must have been hard because he's right-handed! I was just relieved to not be doing it, and content to hold the cut together for him. It certainly must have been very helpful in making it easier for him... you think, maybe? I had to kinda roll the skin so that he could get the needle through more easily. Well, he said that it helped anyways. I noticed that he, too, was shaking as he sewed, which he said was from the strain of pushing that needle through (though I waited until later, when we were done to point that out).
Between gritting his teeth, and a couple of "aaarghs!" (it wasn't very numb), Chris was commenting on how we really do need to get us some real surgeon's sewing needles and assemble a good better first aid kit. I commented that if it's ever the kids or I that need sewing, it's to the doc we're going! LOL We counted down the final stitches, only one more to go!
He reminded me that once upon a time, before there was a doctor down every street, what do I think people did? And with the way things are going in this world, we may not always have such easy access to doctors... we need to learn to be more self-sufficient in the things that we can be... at least.
Yeah, okay, he's right... We'll assemble a nice, ready-for-anything first aid kit... but I sure do hope that we won't need it, and as long as he's able, he's taking me to the doctor to get any stitches that I may need, along with some local anasthetic.
All said and done though, I am impressed! By the time we were finishing up and he was in the shower, we would have just been sitting down in the waiting room of a walk-in clinic. It was red and swollen for the first day. However, now, four days later, it's healing up quite nicely, barely even red. Of course, Chris feels most triumphant in that he saved us a couple hundred bucks... What a man will do when he's got nerve, and doesn't have insurance to pay his bills, huh? What a tough guy I have, and what stories for his kids to tell. So, am I a model help-mate, or what?! LOL Seriously though, Chris is my hero... frustratingly stubborn as he is sometimes.Technorati Tags: self-sufficiency, sewing self, medical, crazy
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Ok Beth,
I just came over here to see what you wrote concerning what Birdie wrote. All i have to say is Chris is definitely more man than I am. There is NO way I am going to sew myself up without local anesthetic.
I can’t even imagine sewing up anyone - the description of how hard it was for him to get the needle through - I can’t believe he was able to do that! I don’t understand how doctors can do it.
Beth, I have two words: Super Glue
Hey Eaglewood,
Don’t worry… I don’t think that there’s ANYthing wimpy about going to the doctor and getting anesthetic! LOL But I told Chris that you said so, and he just smirked and got all serious, said “Being a man isn’t about how tough you are, it’s about character.” True enough.
Hi Leslie,
Yeah, I know! I kept thinking the same thing. HOW do doctors do this?!
Christine, I actually even thought about suggesting that too! LOL But it was a pretty big gash… Hmmm… I do wonder though if it might not have worked?! I do remember the doctor using some sort of super glue on Nathan when he busted his lip open, because he didn’t want to have to sew him up in such a sensitive spot, and he was only 4yo.
Wow. Thank the good Lord that he’s all right.
“Being a man isn’t about how tough you are, it’s about character.”
I know, I was joking just a little, but being able to sew yourself up that way takes quite a bit of intestinal fortitude.
Having had a number of injuries myself including second and third degree burns from a flash fire, one does what one has to do. Including getting the fire out before getting help.
*LOL* Ah, I know that you know… of course.
It was said with a wry smile, half smirking and in jest toward Chris (which doesn’t translate very well in print, I’m afraid). I almost even went back and put in a disclaimer there, since I heard the laugh in your voice, and figured my response could be misconstrued slightly. I’m always razzing him and reminding him to graciously ACCEPT compliments or offerings from others, in the same nature that they are given. He just ALWAYS has a hard time hearing anyone talking good about him. Around here, anytime any one of us compliments him or thanks him for something, he gets all serious like that, and deflects it to, “thank the Lord”, or something… which is true and good, but still, and I’m like “I do, and I KNOW, but STILL… thank YOU too, for such and such…” So, why and how you didn’t get all that from my little comment back, I just simply cannot imagine?! And it did occur to me later (yes, as I over-obsessedly thought about my blog/post/comment) that by my adding that bit of inadvertent jest toward Chris’s tendency toward being too serious- without your having its context, my comment probably came across a bit too sanctimonious there! Sorry! And I hear ya! Aaaack, did ya follow all that? LOL
Oh wow. Ok, I am glad that he is ok. I would worry about infection. And I know that this sounds a little morbid, but John and I laughed. Not at the fact he was hurt, but could imagine Chris doing this. John says you can get a kit for around $10
Puncture wounds can be the worse. So tell that man of yours to be more careful.
I don’t know if I discussed this with you, but you can make cayenne pepper packs with gauze, and it helps stop bleeding.
Buck almost cut himself cutting squash last night and he was joking that he sewed himself up. I told him about Chris sewing himself up with dental floss and his jaw just dropped to the floor.